men decide what is hot

In the readings I really had to agree with what was being said because I think that in society girls look up to the boys to see what they want and what the boys think is "sexy" because women want to dress to impress.  The male version of the perfect girl is unattainable: they want three somes, virgins, and porn stars.  I think that I agree with most of the readings, women try too hard to live up the expectations and only do things when being watched by males.  When it said that girls will hook up with girls and it is acceptable but only when done in front of men I strongly agree because I have seen this done before and it is basically every guys dream come true (only if the two females participating in the activities are attractive).  Because it's mostly guys who watch porn (and from a young age) they think that the moaning is what is "normal" and what is what normal sex is like; when in reality it's not, forcing the female to "put on a show" for men.  I strongly disagree with the expectations men set girls to live up to, females should be setting the scene for what is sexy and what is not because we have to wear the clothes and we need to feel comfortable in what we wear.